My language should have had nothing to do with this issue. I began with a simple thought, expressed in calm words, which merely asked if we could ever talk to each other again or whether we would ever be united as a country once again. The response from Clay was I had a "tone" that he found offensive. It would appear Clay finds many things offensive. He just can't quite tell us why they offend him, just that they do. On "principal".
"Principal"? A Freudian slip I'm sure.
I have what my father called his "dago" problem. I'll gladly try to be nice to you and get along with you, but once you spit in my face, there's a problem. Right or wrong, those are my principles. However, what John allows on this forum should not have substituted for the real issue of this thread.
My complaint was never with Clay himself. He is a small part of a larger problem. If you read my posts, you should see where I find fault. If you don't have talk radio or don't listen to talk radio as we have it here, maybe you don't understand. I live in the seventh largest city in the U.S. and we have five radio stations which broadcast the same "ideological" programming virtually 24/7. I spend a large portion of my day in my car and when I cruise the dial, it's almost impossible to avoid. And it is all the same mindless hatred, just blind simple hatred, that Clay has for the very word "Al Gore". It is no longer even the person of Gore that offends him because the person has been replaced by a thought process. It is Pavlovian. 24/7 the listeners are being kept in a perpetual state of hatred. The only thing that engenders more bile from the listeners than "Gore" or "Clinton" is when the host invokes "Those People". Fifteen to twenty per cent of America feeds on this stuff and they are being taught to hate an entire group of people who simply disagree with them. It is unfortunate that the fifteen to twenty per cent is comprised of mainly whites and mostly males since that group is not well known for their degree of tolerance and acceptance to change. With this sheepheaded mentality they see "Those People" as someone to be ignored, defeated, abused, forgotten, and left behind. They read books which tell them "Those People" hate America, that "Those People" only seek raw power, that "Those People" are liars and fabricators, "Those People" should be deported (to where?) and imprisoned and that "Those People" are suffering from a mental disorder. All things itended to make any opinion not their own appear weak or dishonest and the arguments not worthy of serious debate. More importantly, intended to make "Those People" into weak minded, dishonest non-human beings. "Those People" become just another Pavlovian response. Facts and opinions, reality itself, have been replaced by talking points provided by radio and TV pundits. And the result is the words "Al Gore" become so offensive, the reader cannot see the real intent of the article and cannot agree with anything stated on the page.
And cannot explain why that is so.
My fight was never with Clay. I've enjoyed his posts on the forum. And it's too bad he couldn't simply state what his prinicples were that made page fourteen so offensive. It's too bad he took refuge behind the skirts of a foul word. And its quite too bad he chose to run rather than state what principles he believes in. It seems certain members can cheer on the one who shouts, "The Emperor has no clothes", but when confronted with the idea they might be naked, they cannot defend the attire they drape about themself.
Whether Clay returns is his decision, but my language should never have been a reason for his departure. That he used it as such, rather than address the words he placed in his first post, is regrettable but not altogether unexpected.