I'm running out of space, but I want to point out some products at various price tiers that, in my opinion, you can buy once and buy right.
ESP's Concert Grand, Aerial's 20T, and Wilson Benesch's Chimera, each in its own way, can make a case that it should be your "get off the merry-go-round" loudspeaker choice. The price spread here is from the low $20k (Chimera) to the mid-$30k (Concert Grand). Careful auditioning is obviously called for.
At the next price tier down (ca $12.5k), Shahinian's Diapason is the "love at first hearing or you'll never get it…